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Originally posted by Ideal08
I hate dating. I think that's what I hate most about being single. Ok, let me clarify. I like to date, I think it's fun. What I hate is when it moves from more than just dating and friends to whatever is after that. Then the man gets to saying all types of isht. What I need is a class to teach me how to interpret the BS that some of these men spout. Because how can you tell what's real and what's not? And I thought women changed their minds a lot. Man, man, man. Men change their minds and then wonder how you got confused in the first place. BASTARD!  I feel like I need a stenographer when y'all speak so that you can't say I got it twisted. I am so sick and tired of being confused and trying to figure it out. If I ask you a question, that means I WANT to know the answer. TELL THE TRUTH!!! Stop trying to spare peoples feelings. And if that's not what's up, then MAKE A FRIGGIN' DECISION.
I need to post those top ten cities for dating. Maybe we all need to relocate.
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Soror Ideal--
I hate to say it, but if it ain't work or sports-related, then men do not make that much communcation attempts... Many of them are bruhs.
Lemme put it to you this way: Boys are taught to not share their feelings. To "share"--touchy feely stuh--your little feelings all bottled up inside you--just 'cuz--BULLISHT!!! Besides, folks begin to question their "manliness" and "preferences"... I wouldn't say 80% of men feel this way--more like 90% really do.
THEY JUST DON'T SHARE THAT WAY!!! NUNNA OF THAT DAYUM DR. PHILLE-TOUCHY CRAP!!! MOST MEN WANT TO JOIN THE NRA FOR THAT REASON, ALONE...
Prostelyzing is different. Dreaming about what it would be like in the future--you should see the responses. It does lead one to imply where a man's mind is... If he can't see himself in 2 minutes, how can he see himself in 2-5 years???
It is really easy to figure that chit out.
Now if he's convoluting the story--then SAWRAH--GWIRLFRIEND--he's got something to hide--AND usually it's BIG. Something you may not want to know...
Some men are "crafty"... Those are the one's you've got to watch your back and $$ on. They try to get you to tell them all kinna chit about yourself, including your credit card. Then they scam you and leave you hangin' high and dry.
Usually, I was so oblivious to those kinds of men that when they said some chit to me that didn't sound right--I was gone. Those type of men usually pick fights with you so that they can make themselves feel better for treating you like chit... Those men "MIND FCUK" many-a-woman...
To protect yourself from those types, you call their game... That's another post... For another day...