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Have you ever seen "Vanilla Sky" before?
Cameron Diaz: "You f***d me four times the other night. You've been inside me. I swallowed your cum. That means something!" and "Don't you know that when you sleep with someone, your body makes a promise whether you do or not. "
NOW... let me clarify immediately - I am not psycho! But, I think these quotes support James point, and I agree wholeheartedly with his argument.
I don't think sex is a promise, not for most anyway. But, when you say you love someone, it is, at least to an extent. It means you care, and you don't just give up on things you care about. So, when a so-called "loving" relationship ends, I feel somewhat betrayed that perhaps he didn't really love me in the first place. And if he had, he wouldn't have given up. That's my theory anyway.
But, I don't get all crazy, wacked-out, vindictive on his ass or anything. I just get sad.
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