Well, I think it's sad that some black men feel this way about black women. However, I think that they are struggling with their own issues, and more importantly their own self image. Men who feel this way also fail to realize that they are talking about their own mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and sisters.
I say to each his own. I have no problem with interracial dating. To those men who only date outside of their race need to come to terms with what's bothering them about being black. And believe it or not I can think of two white guys who feel the same way about white women. I know of black women and white women who feel the same way. It's not just black men that have this way of thinking.
You are not going to change your friend's mind. Let him be. Hopefully he will learn the error of his train of thought eventually.
ZetaAce
[This message has been edited by ZetaAce (edited September 28, 2000).]
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