[AlethiaSi]

lol- i'd have to say it depends on the situation- sometimes- if i miss the guy and it was mostly his decision to break things off- then i usually think things are open for negotiation- sometimes we do see each other again....

other times- its my decision- and depending on that- i'll see how things are going and if we talk again- its sometimes that weird chance encounter that makes or breaks the negotiation

though- like peaches-n-cream said- looking back is good- for instance- there is this guy i had a massive crush on all through high school- but he stuck around my town after graduation- and still has the same job- has the same friends- etc since then- we got togehter last summer... he broke things off- i was upset- but now i go into the supermarket and order deli meat from his counter- and i can't help but be smug.... i just spent 5 months in europe... and where is he? cutting boars head roast beef.... lol