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Originally posted by StumpsGirl
I am not sure how the whole local (or multi-cultural, whatever the case) sorority thing works but maybe that is why she is talking about going to exec board. I know this is not true with all locals as I have heard of some really well established ones but from my own experience at my school the local groups are usually the ones having troubles like this because they are just not as established. Also, most of the locals I have dealt with have treated their organization more like an elementary school playground club and not like a sisterhood. This explains the whole "I want her out of the group" mentality. I KNOW I sound harsh and I apologize OPENLY for that but I am only speaking from my own experience. PLEASE DONT BRING OUT THE WET ROPE!!!!
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hahahah of course not- i understand what you are all saying- and yes- you are right- i should NOT have called her that- it was uncalled for- but i've been so angry and stressed through the situation that the only way i can be angry is to talk about it- with other people- not the best way i know
i've already spoken to her and will talk to her again in the fall- i'll see how things go then
locals do often deal with things a bit differently- we are well established- we've been around 75 years- however, we are not well established in recent experience- my sorority went from 4 sisters to 35 in a pretty short period of time- its been VERY difficult to get things moving(with personal relations- and other sorority things) - and we do argue a lot- but we are all close... some more than other obviously....
i appreciate this input though- its been hard taking this criticism but i know that it is necessary- i would rather have you guys dishing it out to me- and me learn from it- then have other repercussions that could have been avoided... so thank you