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Originally posted by AlethiaSi
this is true- its not worth dividing the house- i don't want to do that.... i think this also has to do with the fact that we're growing pretty quickly- and my sorority used to be really tight- and we all knew each other really well- now there are all these new girls since last fall- and i don't know them as well as i thought... i guess this is a reality check that i just can't trust everyone so i should be more careful.... i don't want more drama- i'm glad that we're done for the summer so i have some time to think about all this and come back in the fall ready to talk to her about it without flipping out... at least thats my hope anyway lol
i won't ever forgive her for this- and i don't think i'll involve the exec board but i'll try to be civil... but i know that my other sisters will not forget- and will make things very difficult for her... i'm oging to have to try to keep that under control...
thanks for the advice- i know it seems like my sorority is having issues- and we do- but its just one of those things i guess- growing pains....
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I'm sorry if my post will sound accusatory but, you say that it's not worth dividing the house yet sounds like you have already done that. By saying that you never wanted her in the house and some of your sisters didn't either, then you have already divided the house in some respects. Those that wanted her and you there will probably stay out of it just to keep you both in the house. Those that like her and not you will be on her side and vice versa so you have already caused a division.
I also don't think that you will make sure that the other girls won't make it hard for her and give her #%&@.
In my opinion I think you like that drama. Someone posted earlier that you wanted GC'ers opinion about whether or not to stay with a guy in London this was also during the time that you were with the guy that your sister kissed/messed around with...whatever.
So my question is if he is
so important to you why did you want to stay with the guy in London?