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Keeping your head
Everyone is bagging on this girl...and they have some good points....but it just seems to me that the obvious angle is that she is hurt and is trying to find a way to be able to still like the guy and, to do that, she HAS to blame it on the girl for her own peace of mind. It doesn't mean it's right, but that's how she has to feel in order to not feel rejected by this guy. It's much easier to take if the guy is the victim of a manipulative girl....
But, IMO, if this guy really liked the girl and wanted to stay committed to her, EVERY ONE of her sisters (including the one she is mad at) could have jumped up and down naked in front of the guy and he would have said "no thanks, I don't want to be with you." The fact that he did not resist this temptation is NOT this girl's fault. (The sister is only guilty of finding this guy attractive and wanting to be with him....can she really blame her for that??? After all, that's what SHE wants too!) HE is the one who chose to let it or make it happen.
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