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Jules, I think you and your friends are correct in your theory.
I have talked about this with people also. Being beautiful can be a liability in some ways. And keep in mind that beautiful and hot are different. Hot can be a combination of dress and attitude and sends a highly sexual message.
Beautiful is something else again.
ITs a tension thing. You know how when you really like someone you feel tense around them at first? Self conscious etc?
Well beauty inspires that at first sight. Especially if the person does not normally date beautiful women. IT can be quite daunting. Alcohol tends to uhm . . . lower tension levels making it easier to talk to these girls, but you have to sober up some time and maybe the next day you feel less than confident.
It would probably help if the girl actually kissed him or something before the night was over.
Isn't the same thing true with girls also? I have been in great-shape, in horrible shape and everywhere in between. . .
And I can honestly say that I probably have gotten the most amount of actual girls coming up to me when i was closest to just being average.
Which made no sense to me at all until another girl said it had to do with intimidation.
So actually for a really beautiful girl it might pay her to dress down a little when she goes out. She is already there, she doesn't need to heighten it, and more guys will find her approachable.
Also, there is something about a girl in Full-Girl-Armor, make-up, dressed to kill, proper accecories that makes her seem a little less aproachable.
Kind of like girls telling me that its somehow easier to approach guys that don't tuck their shirts in lol . .. .
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