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Originally posted by James
Also, I know you are not going to want to hear this but you were over. You were not going out, and you were 4 thousand miles away. She technically did nothing wrong. Certainly nothing to get quite this upset about.
Honestly ladies, having sex with a boy is not the same as an animal pissing on him to mark him as territory for life. 
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I agree with the animal peeing and territory for life thing. Some of us, totally including myself, take for heart that just b/c we dated/currently dating/or like a guy that most of our friends won't do anything about it. That is a lot of BS in some cases. Girls be aware.
HOWEVER......this other girl is stupid if she thinks that this wouldn't somehow involve most of her sorority sisters. I can just picture this happening in my chapter. Certain sisters would have agreed w/ one while others agreeing w/ the other. That is drama!!!!
I am really sorry this happened to you! But I agree that you should terminate this guy being in your life! Also, be careful about involving your exec board. You may mention in case she does pity party - you the two of you recently had problems. But thats it. B/c then that puts them in the whole situation. Which equals more drama. And drama is bad.