Soon to be, trust me...you can't convimce him, but if he truly cares, he will come around. I am a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., and when I first pledged, I was in a similar situation. My boyfriend ultimately accepted my decision because his concerns were put at ease for primarily 2 reasons. 1. He realized that my affiliation with Delta did not change the way I felt about or treated him, and 2. He developed life-long friendships with some of my sorors that last to this day! ( I pledged nearly 10 years ago.) Those 2 aspects of my life mixed very well, and soon his apprehension was gone. I joined Delta at a school where the sorors were so close that people on campus used to say that there was only 1 continuous Delta line there called "Delta Ship Joined at the Hip!" It was pretty much true, and it still is to this day. The relationship that I have with my sorors, old and new, is absolutely wonderful. I have been in everything from weddings to delivery rooms, and the person that I have become enhanced by the positive relationships and life experiences I have had with my sorors has made me a better person all around. My guy benefits from that as well (yes, it's the same guy
) , and I am sure that yours will too.
Good Luck, and don't worry...nothing just happens, everything happens just.
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