Thank you everyone for the replies. (Delta-I'm actually a second year student and my boyfriend and I met here at school.)
It's not that he doesn't want me to be involved...he just doesn't want me involved in the Greek system. I guess he's just worried about the stigma that comes along with wearing the letters. The particular organization that I'm interested in is extremely respected on my campus (by the students as well as the administration) but they're also known for being REALLY close and for dedicating the majority of their time to their organization. I think my boyfriend is worried that I'm going to put him second to them and, because I'm going to be so busy while I'm pledging, I don't know if I'll be able to convince him otherwise.
|