i understand that a rec is not a guarantee. would a sister tell a PNM that she didnt want to write a rec, or write a not-so-stellar one?
i'd imagine the rec required from a member, in terms of NPHC, is different... any1 want to throw an answer in (unless that in itself is TMI)?
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Do you know people? Have you interacted with them? Because this is pretty standard no-brainer stuff. -33girl
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