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Old 05-10-2004, 02:11 PM
KellyB369 KellyB369 is offline
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I think for the most part there is at least some variation between the chapters on every campus. I think that if what you're most concerned about/focused on is being the center of attention with the guys and the looks of the other girls you'd be better off to join one of the chapters who are known for being superficial. Sorority life is about so much more than looks and boys. While there are lots of mixers, frat parties, etc the most important things are (or should be) sisterhood and activities with your sisters. You can always party with boys, but you can't always find a setting where you can hang out with and bond with a huge group of girls.
I agree with whoever said that sorority life can increase problems like eating disorders, etc but that only happens when the girl has self-esteem issues already. If it does happen and you have chosen to join a chapter who genuinely cares about you, I am sure they will all be right there to support you.
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