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Originally posted by phimuandfries
I remember our ritual chair asking us those questions, but none of us had a problem so we went on as scheduled. But what happens when somebody says "Yes, I do have a problem"? im just curious
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Wow... I don't know. It's never happened to me either. I guess if it happened with one of my Phis, I would clarify exactly what she had a problem with and try to come up with a solution. If it was a problem with the hand on the Bible, we could probably do something to remedy the situation and keep going. But if it was a problem with the total references to God or religion... I would probably get a little more specific with her in private about what would be expected, and tell her she would have to decide whether or not she wanted to continue. Honestly, I would have difficulty encouraging someone who did not believe in God AT ALL to continue and be initiated into Phi Mu... especially considering we have a formal ritual meeting once a month. It's not something you can skip or get around or avoid until Initiation time.