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Originally posted by valkyrie
I hear about women who are upset that they don't have a date for this or that, or that their date is being an ass, or that they want a candle pass of their own -- and frankly I do think it's a problem.
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What's wrong with wanting a candle pass? I can see there being a problem if you're thought of as "uncool" if you don't ever get one, but just wanting one is the same as wanting, say, a new pair of shoes.
As for not having a date to functions...my sorority sisters never made me feel like a loser for not having one (and I went without quite often because I had a long-distance guy), but going somewhere is so much more fun when you have someone to dance the slow songs with. I like dancing with my friends, too, but I also like meeting people and being "forced" to find a date can help you meet a lot of people.
