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Originally posted by zchiprincess
Hi everyonel. I don’t post here too often but I noticed there was a WW thread on GC and I wanted to ask you guys something.
I have been on WW since November of 2003 and I have lost 25 lbs. I have gone from a size 11 in juniors to a size 3. Now all of this is great and I am so happy about it, but today one of my good friends told me about a comment someone made about me. We went to high school with this guy and she works with him now. When she told him I was a size 3 now, he goes "No way! _________ isn't even that size!" And apparently it bothered him that I was that small. I just don't understand that kind of comment coming from a guy. And I asked her why he would even be upset and she said that it's cuz his girl is not even that small so it bothers him that I would be.
I don’t even know this guy that well! We haven't really spoken since high school; I am married and settled in my life now too. I just don't get it.
Do you guys experience stuff like this? I just don't know how to react or feel and I don't want his negative energy affecting my mood or my weight loss. Any insight would really help. Thanks for listening guys.
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Are you happy with your weight loss? Are you happy with your man? Your life?
If you are happy (or content...cause let's face it, bot everyone is happy all the time) then who cares about this guy?!
You haven't seen him since highschool, his opinion doesn't matter. And it never should have and it never will!
He's upset because you're smaller then his girlfriend. Well obviously that shows he bases his relationships solely on the physical. he's an insecure little man and isn't worth your time.
be happy with your self and what you have achieved!
Congratulations on your weight loss!