So let me pose the question of soulmates....I've once heard that you only have two great loves of your life: the one you let go and the one that let you go.
As far as soulmates are concerned, do you feel that you have met yours at some point? The person that it has been predestined is your equal counterpart?
In my situation, I have met a GREAT man! I love him to death. The love I have for him is friendship, mental, spiritual, physically (
) but also intimate. I feel that he is my soulmate, yet not romantically. I do believe that he is the man that some higher being has decided has to be a permanent part of my life. The conflict is that I feel that he may be the one for me.
This guy and I have had our "no-titled, no-strings" relationship for almost two years now. We are with no one else but each other and are very open. we talk about everything because we are best friends before anything. I want that title on the relationship so that I can say to the world "YES!!! HE IS MY MAN!!!" but I do not know what that might do to us.
My friends say leave it alone and it will develop but u know how we women are when that "itch" comes around. The problem is that I do not know if I should continue to wait for him. I do not want to pressure him and ask but I do not want to keep going to sleep at night wondering if tomorrow he'll ask that question I've waited two years for.
Please someone, anyone, give a sistah some advice......