[lil_sunshine]

Call her and congratulate her on becoming a Delta. Keep the convo going by asking general questions and if she brings up the fact that she hadn't heard from you in awhile, then just explain to her how you feel now and felt back then. Do not dwell on the past, it may not be important once you start talking to her. Just keep the convo as calm and polite as possible. If there's anything she wants to reveal to you about how she may feel, let the chips fall where they may. Just make sure you hang up the phone knowing where your friendship stands....

Originally posted by o2bame
Hey all. My good friend who was close to me like a sister just recently crossed as a Delta. I am extremely happy for her however, and i cant help but feel like she is dogging me for her sorority. Now i know that its hard for someone like me on the outside looking in to understand but maybe you all can help me.
Well first I havent heard from my friend in about 4 months while she was in school. I knew that she might be in the process of pledging so i didnt sweat it i just supported her. However, my friend didnt even call me to tell me about her pro-show or that she crossed. I had to hear from another person from her school. Until this day my girl has not called me, emailed me or contact me at all. I am pretty ticked off and it makes me feel like she's just cancelling our friendship. Am I being petty and selfish? Should i be more understanding and realize that things will just have to be this way? Or is my friend the one that is tripping. I plan on calling her this weekend but i dont want to say anything hurtful especially if its not her fault. But I can help but feel like im being played. Talk to me GC....