Maybe he doesn't want to make her jealous of you. Maybe he's paranoid that he *does* have feelings for you. I'm not saying he does. Apparently he really likes this girl, but maybe he's confused. He is going thru a divorce, after all. I think it's awesome that not only do you have such a great relationship w/ Joe, but also that your husband is totally cool about it. My best guess on this situation is that he wants to make sure that if his relationship w/ this girl pans out that you two (you and her) get along well. He doesn't want to start things off by her being jealous (if jealousy is an issue). Good luck.
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