[CatStarESP4]

First, when people are drunk, their best judg(e)ment was checked at the door. Alcohol is not like truth serum, so you don't always hear the truth. People tend to do and say things they really don't mean at all under the influence.

Second, you should definitely talk to her alone about her behavior and what she said to you. Tell her that what she said to you was hurtful. Emphasize that you don't drink for personal reasons and that she should have respected your decision, not demean you.

Good luck!