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Originally posted by SiKeS
Do you think it would be wrong of me to continue to rush even though I've already signed?
The problem is that I'd feel like I was taking advantage of them... & wasting their time and money...
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Personally I do think that it's "wrong" of you to continue to rush if your bid is actually a "real" bid (not saying it is or isn't, i haven't followed your process too closely). By signing that bid you indicated that you wanted to be a brother of THAT fraternity, and not any others. Maybe you sold yourself short by signing so early and not getting to see a lot of the other fraternities? I don't know, IFC rush is so different that NPC.
But in any event, a bid is a committment, and it's rude to look elsewhere, IMHO. That's great that you're straight up with them that you've already signed a bid, but it still doesn't seem right. And if the bid were as binding as you seem to think it is, I don't see why other fraternities would be bothering to rush you?
In any event, stop worrying and thinking about greek life so much. Enjoy your last bit of high school memories and a summer or freedom. College and your involvement in fraternity life will start soon enough. As anyone here can attest to, it's VERY easy to get burnt out on greek life. Just relax, have some fun, and worry about the fraternity come August.
Good luck to you, wherever your pursuit of greek life takes you!
