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Originally posted by SmartBlondeGPhB
This actually does sound exactly like what the bf tells me happens with the men's rush at his alma mater. He received a bid during the summer too.
But from what the guys on here have already said, it sounds pretty normal but I think it is binding.
Now did the chapter turn in your name as now having received a bid and no longer "available"? I ask because when the bf got his bid, they didn't turn in his name "so he could continue going to summer rush parties and get free beer" and it sounds like that was a normal thing back then. But, I only know stories and no 1st hand knowledge.
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Wow lol that actually does sound a lot like me... I'm not sure if they've turned my name in or not. I know since then, I've received a few calls from other fraternities asking me if I'm still interested in greek life...
While I would like to continue to get free refreshments and ride out the rush, I'm not sure if I'm allowed to... So I always just tell 'em straightup that I've signed...
I dunno.. Do you think it would be wrong of me to continue to rush even though I've already signed?
The problem is that I'd feel like I was taking advantage of them... & wasting their time and money...
That is the downfall of signing early... I'm pretty sure that after the rushing stops, so does all the freebies and special treatment..
-Matt