[RedFox]

I have definitely seen where that has been the case...but you know...some people are totally, not really ASKING for it...but are so obnioxious and the ones that lets say don't get a bid to a sorority where they think they got into already and bragged to everyone that they would get in, suicided and didn't get a bid and then would in turn bad mouth the sorority afterwards, isn't really being a good person. But I agree to the point where its pointless and immature to mention something like that that would be hurtful on an instant message.