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Originally posted by starang21
so would you be ok with your fiancee being all hugged up and holding hands with some other woman?
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I would assume that if we are engaged, I would know what his personality is like - and I wouldn't agree to be engaged unless I knew and loved his personality. So, if his personality entailed his being VERY friendly to other women, I would either be okay with it or would never have said "yes" in the first place. Really, it's all about trust to me - I would not be engaged to someone I can't trust. I don't think that someone being flirty and outgoing means they are not trustworthy and I wouldn't rule them out for just that.
If he all of a sudden started acting like that out of nowhere and it was out of character, I would not be okay with it though because I would see it as a sign of a problem.
Does this make any sense? It's kind of a convoluted post...