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Originally posted by Rudey
Valkyrie why do you want to get married? It's not about money obviously. You said it's because it's something nice to do...it's nice to have a piece of paper? Is it fitting in with the norm? I guess I don't understand that.
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I don't give a rat's ass about fitting in with the norm (I'm sure that's hard to believe!) but I guess I can't really explain why I might like to get married at some point. My opinion on the issue changes all the time, and right now I'm leaning more in favor of NOT getting married because I don't really think it's any of the government's damn business to define my relationship -- however, I like the idea of having health insurance even though I'm not employed and I also like the idea of my potential spouse being able to visit me in the hospital if something happens to me -- don't they often refuse to let "non family" in to see you?
I go back and forth on it all the time, really.