mon- i definately see your side of the point... and it is a very difficult thing to go through... a few friends of mine have gone though it- and it is true that it doesn't have to happen... but it does- and women do have to make that decision... it isn't a good one.... i think taking responsibility before hand is a valid point... but unnecessary... you can't go back and change what happend... so now they has to deal with it....
as someone brought up in another post about the instances of unsafe abortions occuring all over the world today- and so many of them in the united states before roe. v. wade... i just want women to be able to have the option for a safe procedure... thats all....