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Originally posted by Ideal08
This is hard for me, cuz I feel where your friend is coming from. I don't plan on telling anyone on the first date that I'm only interested in marriage, only because that person could very well serve another purpose in my life. I'm open to starting new relationships. Now, when my emotions become involved, THEN I'll let brothaman know that if it's not moving towards marriage then we can cool out. But on the first date or before the first date, I think that's a little much. But I TOTALLY feel her on being somebody's 'girl.' I'm too old for that. But, what if in dating, the dude DOES become ready to get married? It's just hard. But I feel her, I do.
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Yes thats how I feel..on one part..I feel strongly about knowing where a brother's head is before getting emotionally invested...but I do think meeting initially is a bit too soon to discuss marriage...and also..from my experience..no man approaches me because he just wants a friend
.. he definitely has something he wants..and most of the time its not to get to know me better... (though thats what they say) and some don't waste any time with sexual inneuendos (sp)...so I dont know... why date a brother for a month or more just to find out he still wants to play the field...
