[Ideal08]

Originally posted by NuQueen04
To answer your question about are you being unrealistic, my answer to you would be no. If you are splitting the bills 50/50 that is your roommate, not your husband. I am not married, but I do know married couples that the husband provides for the wife. However, the wife works outside the home and manages the money within the household. So, its realistic...some may think its old fashion, but its doable.

Are you being selfish? I don't think that you are.

How likely is it that his perspective will change??
For the most part, however he is, that is how he is. You cannot change him.

To gain some clarity, my advice would be to pray about it. God will answer your prayers. However, you should be open to the answer, even if it is not what you want to hear.

Peace. One. Continued blessings.

Ditto. I realized after I posted that I didn't even answer the questions.