[Love_Spell_6]

This thread is really depressing...what makes it that way is that so many of us can relate to what has been said...but I have a question... for yall.. A friend told me that a man approached her in church and wanted to get to know her better...so she said she was going to ask him 1. Are you looking for a girlfriend or a wife.. 2. If he says wife...she would say..How do you know I'm marriage material?? and did you go to God first... ANd if he said a girlfriend...she would keep it moving...

For those of you who are saved...and want to marry a Christian man...do you think this is coming on too strong?? One part of me says that she is right...that at 30+ and in search of a God fearing man...she doesn't have time to be no one's "girl" ... and that if a brother is still unsure about whether he wants to be married..its a waste of time....but then another part of me says...is marriage something that should be a determining factor in whether or not you talk/date to someone??

What do you think ladies??