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Originally posted by ADPiShannan
I agree. The disorder shows up in many situations, many ages, many times in peoples lives. How can he prove that he started this from hazing? Also if he knew he had it before the hazing incident then he should be taking medicine or watching so he didnt go nuts. If he knew hed be taking something so it didnt get out of hand and if he knew he had it he wouldnt put himself through so much stress with hazing going on, he would have dropped out.
I just think he is using that against the frat. Just my .02 though. I know a close friend from HS who went to a small campus and rushed, the sorority of her choice hazed very badly, I mean horribly, it scared me so much. She dropped out because she wouldnt take the crap for any sorority. If it wasnt that big of a deal when he went through and he went through all the way without saying anything, then I dont think its that big now. I mean hazing is terrible but why endure it all then tattle on the frat but ask for them to be nice to them and not be too hard. Cant have your cake and eat it too if you ask me.
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I think you would have to be more familiar with BGLO fraternity life before you could fully understand why someone would willingly endure hazing to get through the process. It was bad enough that he wanted photo documentation I'll take his word that he was taken to the shed. As far as how he could prove that the disorder didn't show up before, unless he was treated before then no one can establish he had the disorder before he went online. Everyone's tolerance for hazing is different, from those that have none to those that can take just so much from those that will revel in telling you their war stories. Depending on where you are on that spectrum again I think it would be hard for you to understand his motivation. Not saying I do necessarily but it's not the first time and I'm sure it won't be the last time that I have heard a similar story.