I would interpret the scenario as most have already posted. If I'm a grown woman and I didn't recieve an invite, then I wouldn't have attended either. But you know how "we" do. I'm 22 and live on my own and my brother has joined the Air Force. Yet family reunion information letters and wedding invitations always go to my parents house to invite all four of us even though only 2 live at the house.
Another wedding question: This may be stupid, but what is the deal with 2 wedding rings. I usually see older women with them. One is usually plain, the other with a diamond...I guess like a set. Is this traditional? Is it necessary? Does it symbolize something?