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Originally posted by BlueReign
Savvy Diva,
I'm with you on this....Buzz the f-- off!!
I guess why I posted this question is that I often feel like I have to apologize AFTER I had told somebody off for asking me an overly personal question in the first place.
I'm single, attractive, highly independent and often the way that the question is posed it's like "there must be something wrong with you" because you're not married.
I have been down that road before and have 3 children as a result. Now the question that usually comes is, "have you ever thought about re-marrying?" WHY? That is all the more reason for me to be even more highly selective in getting married again because I have little ones. Now it would be nice to have a hand to help in raising them but that is not the sole reason for me to re-marry. Somehow people (mostly men) find it hard to believe that I haven't met someone yet. (Well I have recently but I realize that I still should not be in no hurry).
I have to vent here because lately, I get this question almost daily believe it or not and I am sick of responding.
How bout the flip side of this. Why is it when a man is pass a certain age, attractive, educated, employed and still single it's ok? I have a co-worker who "brags" about this.
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In my opinion, there is nothing more disgusting than middle aged players. They totally reek of midlife crisis...I don't care how attractive they are, that is just too creepy to me. And you know they be tryin to get the youngest chicks they can find... Bleah Bleah!!! Can gold chains be outlawed for men over 30? Yeeesh!!