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Originally posted by The Original Ape:
That IS old fashion! 
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Oh boy, -- hush!!
No, seriously it depends on your age. I noticed what Chi Zeta said and I know that she and I are in the same age "bracket". You know as men get older they tend to be more aggressive in what they want and stating it.
Most of them 30+ have been around the block a few times and know what they want and will tell you before you get away. They know they lose out by trying to be "macho" and not expressing their feelings. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and he never stops saying "I love you". He said it on our 3rd date. He said it at least 10 times last night and twice this morning!!
I'm a little old fashioned too and would prefer that he say it first. But since you say that it is killing you, then go ahead and tell him. If something happened to him today you would be wishing you had. If he doesn't feel the same way, be prepared to not hear him say it back. He may feel that way but think he is being weak if he says it. But even so he must really, really, really like you a whole lot to take you around like that!