I had a friend who pledged XYZ in Spring 2003, and she has a 2 year old son. Everyone who is close to her knows that she is a great mom, a great person, and would make a great addition to XYZ.
So while she was pledging, various close friends would take turns watching her son. End result? She's a great asset to XYZ, a hard worker, very active, and she's graduating.
Its really close-minded to think that just cause a woman is pregnant or has a child that she can't be a good sister. Instead, if its something she really wants to do, maybe you should be more supportive instead of just telling her NO.
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