Small Issue...
I am a member of a service fraternity. I have a few friends who are Delta's. One day, my friend said they had a service project that day. I saw a few Delta's that night, one of which I am cool with. I was like hey girl how was y'all project. She said they didn't have one that day...I was like
oh ok. I mean not that I really cared like that, I was just confused cuz my friend had mentioned that they had one. As I left the room, I heard one of her ls's call out from the bathroom stall, "WHO IS THAT ASKING ABOUT DELTA"
. I started to walk back in there but I didn't want to start anything. It kind of ticked me off though. I'm not interested in Delta like that. I pledged what I wanted to pledge. I'm very much interested in things dealing with my culture and my (African-American) history; therefore fraternities and sororities intrest me. I can spit a little bit about all the D9 and other orgs in the Black community (Mason, OES, Jack and Jill,etc. ) I know that the Ladies of DST do wonderful things and I commend them for that; however, I wasn't and I'm not trying to be down. That kind of hurt my feelings though cuz I couldn't help but wonder, why do you have to make such an assumption? You have never seen me at any of your functions...come on now. And furtermore, I have noticed that she looks at me funny when I see her. I was training (strolling) with my frat the other day and she was really giving me the Aunt Ester eye (ole fish eye'd fool!!!) Would I be wrong to approach her? I don't wanna start up any drama, but I don't want her eyeing me either. I would appreciate any advice.