I've had several rush crushes, and a few of them ended up going Alpha Chi
I did have one last year that I fell hard for, but she ended up going to another house. Now that I see her, I can see that she is extremely happy there. I was crushed when her name wasn't called out on bid day, and it was even sadder to see her run to the house next to ours. But I know she's ultimately happy, and that's what matters
Something else funny: When I met my first little during recruitment, I thought she was a total snob. She wouldn't look anyone in the eye and didn't talk too much, and she was very sarcastic (I am a sarcastic person, but not during recruitment). I kept wondering why she was coming back, and one of my closest sisters accidently got her for pref (someone outside had lined some girls up in the wrong order). Despite the fact that the name on her carnation was the wrong name, she ended up becoming an Alpha Chi. Once I really got to know her, I realized that she wasn't a snob at all, and first impressions are often wrong.