It is funny that you should pose this question because I was thinking about this exact same thing yesterday. I say if she is someone you would definitely want in your sisterhood if she were not pregnant, then let her pledge (after she has the baby). I only say after she has the baby for safety reason. With all of these lawsuits going around, you do not want your organization to be held liable if something goes wrong during her pregnancy. Also, the concessions you would have to make due to her pregnancy would be unfair to others who were on line with her.
I mean let's flip this for a minute. What if you and your line sisters had just crossed, and one of your line sisters found out she was pregnant? What would you or could you do then? Or, what if you found out you were pregnant while you are a member of your undergraduate chapter? How would you want your sisters to handle your situation? I think putting yourself in the other person's shoes will help you to come up with a balanced and compassionate answer.
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