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My chapter... after MUCH debate extended a bid to a married lady... she was 20... she was active for I think like a semester.. then the next semester we saw less and less of her.. then she pulled the "I'm married I want to go alum" and she did.. we couldn't do, even though in my opinion she didn't deserve the status. Now she's still enrolled in school and she doesn't do ANYTHING for the chapter at all or really even talk to any of us. So you can't tell me that if just being married this sister of mine couldn't handle coming to the required amount of events that someone who has the responsibility of looking after another human being is going to have to time to participate in a sorority.
I mean maybe if she had the type of situation Peaches N Cream was talking about where the grandparents looked after baby during the semester it would be a different situation... and perhaps James' Amy situation would fit that bill if her parents are willing to help her out..(not even money wise... but time wise) so I would definitely consider bidding Amy. but if this women decides to have the baby and pretty much is responsible for everything.. how can you justify spending money on dues instead of diapers ?
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