now i know this is not true for every man, but some men are just too lazy or insecure, or whatever, to even try to step to a sister who has her life figured out.
Some men can't or don't like to put up with the "hassle" of being with a strong black woman becasue she challenges him mentally
some men want the "good" woman only when they are ready to "settle down" after they have done all of their running around. (what makes them think that a "good" woman will want a man that has been around one too many times?)
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