i feel ya on this topic
my best friend is a black male and i asked him to break it down to me:
the question was: Why haven't i met a decent black man or why are all of the ones i meet only want to be "cut friends"
his answer: i was too intelligent and independent. i did not play games and i can spot a game when it is trying to be played. i have myself together with my own career,car,and i pay all of my bills
so is all of this a bad thing?
is that to say that men can't handle an intelligent sister who takes care of her own.
i am in no way arrogant but i don't wait to be taken care of.
[This message has been edited by RHOyal-Silence (edited July 16, 2001).]
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