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I agree not to tell. When I went through recruitment, I didnt tell my family. They pushed me so much my fall semester that I didnt want to do it so they thought I wasnt interested. I went through that spring and did not tell anyone I was an ADPi legacy. I wanted the girls to want me for me and for what I had to offer instead of just being a legacy. I didnt want the other chapters to try to rush me even more. I wanted to be on even playing ground for all chapters. After I realized I loved ADPi and wanted them so badly and received a bid from them, I called my mom and grandma and told them I had joined and it was ADPi.
Sometimes you just want everyone to love you for you and it sounds exactly like how I felt when I went through. Id say not tell and be respectful to that. She needs to find what she wants without everyone hounding her.
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