The only problem is that most people think they are mature no matter what their age or maturity lol. Its a lack of objectivity and perspective and a source of endless amusement for me . . .
You watch these people get into these really serious relationships or marriage and they become desperately unhappy but don't really know why . . . or even that they are unhappy . . kind of like having a faint but unrecognizable head ache.
Until one day bang, the moment of truth, they realize that they are not happy with their partners, its like an epiphany. And then they either leave and wish they had long before, or stay and become miserable.
Unhappines is a feel of unease and blah. A sort of numbness.
Misery is realizing that you are unhappy, he cause of it, and not doing anything about it.
But it is kind of fun to watch those people.
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Originally posted by Munchkin03
I have serious issues with assigning an arbitrary age upon which to get married, as I've said before. I know very self-aware 19 year olds who have been on their own, supporting themselves, since the age of 15 or 16, and I know 28 year olds who are totally pampered and sheltered. Just because one person is older doesn't mean that they should be getting married.
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