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Shyness can often be mistaken for snobbery, so if you're too shy to talk, try to make eye contact and smile at your rusher.
If you can work up the courage, TELL her that you're shy, and she'll understand. We KNOW that you're nervous, and many of the girls that come through are shy. Just look interested in what they're asying, and everything will be OK. I'm fairly shy myself, but I'm also the vice president of my chapter.
Sometimes, they'll ask if YOU have any questions for THEM. Try to get a question formed in your head in case this arises, for example, "What do you like about your sorority symbol?" or, "Tell me about your sisterhood," open-ended questions that will keep HER talking rather than YOU.
Hope this helps!
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