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Originally posted by XOMichelle
So there is a lot to recruitment that has to do with image, and that I will agree to. But deep down I still believe that my sorority is about sisterhood and living up to our ideals of being "democratic rather than exlcusive, and loveable rather than popular." To hear y'all go off on how a 20 year old and a 27 year old with children (or the other way around), shouldn't be friends, or should not be interested in fufilling those goals of sisterhood and ideals, well, THAT'S what looks bad to me. Living your life by the rule of the rumor is no way to live. If you are in a place where a pregnant woman would "ruin" your chapter, you should be asking yourself why this is, not how do we get rid of people who din't fit our notion of "appropriate". Also, people SHOULD have lives outside their sorority... if they don't our organizations are not doing their job.
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shoot, I'd love to know where you go to school, where people don't judge other people, and the reputation of the sororities means nothing to potential new members.
and a 27 year old who spends all her time hanging out with 19 year olds is a problem.