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a sorority is a lot like a jealous lover. it wants you all the time. when you only fulfill the minimum you feel out of the loop. if you work all the time, have a kid, etc., you're not going to be able to put into it as much as you like.
it's a mutual selection process. it is about image. yes, it's superficial. deal with it. pnm's cut houses because they don't like the look of certain women, the colors, etc.
the ages range from 16-23. most of those girls are single, and with ranging degrees of immaturity. a mother needs to exercise good judgement and what works for her single, 19 year old sister isn't necessarily her best choice. and sororities offer a lot of choices and opportunities. how would a mother identify with that level of maturity? the same goes for a 27 year old joining. she should be associating with people her own age, who are on the same level. same goes for married people. your priorities are just different.
it may work for some campuses and chapters, and that's great. no one is trying to change your campus.
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