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Originally posted by penguintpa_lady
First of all i want to say that you are not suppose to discriminate against PNM, & if you are not giving someone a bid because they are pregnant or have a child THEN U ARE DISCRIMINATING AGAINST THAT PERSON.
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Sororities are discriminatory by nature. We pick and choose who we want as members of our organization. I see having a child (or being pregnant) as a very large time commitment, like having a full-time job or being a triple major. While none of those things are dealbreakers for me, I would think twice about extending a bid to someone with ANY of those qualifications. Being an active, visible, participating member of the chapter is a requirement for being a member in Phi Mu. If I felt like she would not be able to adequately devote time to my sorority, I would probably question her motivations for wanting to become a member. I get stressed with time, as do most of my sisters... I simply cannot imagine if there was a CHILD thrown in the mix.