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First of all i want to say that you are not suppose to discriminate against PNM, & if you are not giving someone a bid because they are pregnant or have a child THEN U ARE DISCRIMINATING AGAINST THAT PERSON.
I see NO problem with a member having a child or being pregnant. My big had a little boy before she came thru, who stayed with her mom & she went home (or he came here) almost every weekend. the sisters all loved him, we spoiled him like crazy, let him come to events, and done everything w/ him.
Last year my best friend came thru she had a young son & was pregnant w/ her little girl. everyone thought it was great!!!!!! Again, the sisters just adored him. helped baby-sit & was there for her during some hard times. Now dont get me wrong it was a little different because we were local @ the time. my big is now alum. & the friend did not go thru nationally because she took the qtr. off to have her baby when we were going national. she still wants to go thru & at the point she is not in school but she has been thinking about coming in as an alumni int. But the sisters still invite her to things & tell her to bring the kids by etc.
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