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I agree with you, Scooby.
It's all about where you set priorities and what matters most. We had sisters that were PRACTICALLY married (long term boyfriends - one of them was my Big Sister) and they participated as much or more than everyone else. So they didn't attend every Saturday night fraternity party or stay out until all hours - why does that matter in the big scheme of things?
I guess there are some organizations or chapters that don't want the stigma of having a "married sister". I would think in this day and age of more "non-traditional" students attending college than ever before (40% of students today are over 25 and over 70% of students work), that fraternal organizations would keep an open mind and look at individuals for who they are as a person.
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