Amen to that Soror. My insignificant other (I just don't know what to call him these days) has stayed at my house anytime. I trust him. He had a key,could answer my phone, etc. But the time I leave him alone he goes through my things.
Because he doesn't trust me is why we are not really together now.
Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship, as equally as important as love.