Well spoken, XOMichelle.
I'm not sure where this over-protective "I must be the only person watching over my children" phase has come from. If a mother chooses to be that way, that's fine. I also realize that every child is different, and some do need more supervision than others-- but if a chapter is willing to put through a mother with child (or children), I can't see how it would be a detriment. If anything, that particular sister becomes a mentor to the others who haven't experienced reality-beyond-college yet.
~ Mel.